Should a person use canned material or routines when they are trying to improve their attraction potential with the opposite sex?

Before we go any further, let’s clarify what “Canned Material” actually is for those not in the know. Canned material is essentially any speech, presentation, or performance that has been rehearsed so it comes across in a more polished manner. It is not impromptu or improvised, though often the audience will assume that it is.

As a point of reference, many comedians use canned material in their performances. As a viewer or listener of the audience, we may know that it’s not the first time this person has done this routine, but if it is performed sufficiently well, we enjoy it so much that we really don’t care either way.

Back to the issue at hand. This topic has generated a lot of heat recently between the foremost dating coaches and pickup artists. There seems to be two camps on the philosophical battleground.

The camp that is in favor of using canned material states that in order to attract a woman, you must show her something she’s never seen before; and throw her off her base to get her attention.

However, it is my opinion as a professional dating coach, that this school of thought is severely deluded and out of touch with reality.

As you may have guessed, I find myself firmly situated on the opposite side of the battlefield. I do not believe in using canned material. The benefit of not using routines is that it allows you to showcase the best parts of your personality. You show women who you really are, and can connect with them very quickly and honestly.

The people with the best personalities (think about the guy or girl that everyone wants to talk to at the company party) consistently tell the same stories over and over. You may not notice that it has been previously rehearsed, because these types of individuals are usually part of many diverse social circles, yet they tell the same stories in each of them. They are essentially, their “go to” material.

Having stories that you can rely on is completely different from using canned material in that the stories are real, and the jokes can please a whole crowd. Where as canned routines are more time then not, fake and only used to try and impress an attractive woman.

Here’s a great way for you to get personal and close with a woman very quickly, while still being yourself:

Think about that one funny story that you love to tell. Everyone has one. I call it their default go-to joke. You’ve probably told it how many times now? You could tell it in your sleep no doubt.

The next time you are out, and talking to a group of men and women (or just women) don’t be afraid to break that story out if you see an appropriate moment.

If you can walk in to a new group and make everyone laugh, you will be seen as extremely confident and a natural leader; both of these are incredibly attractive qualities to women.

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Talk to you soon,

Josh Rosenberg